Showing posts with label birthday. Show all posts
Showing posts with label birthday. Show all posts

Thursday, March 31, 2011

Celebrating Eva at Three Years Old!

It is amazing to me that it was three year ago that Eva came into this world! The root word behind her name means "life," and many times over this past year I've thought about how much life she carries everywhere she goes, and how much life she brought to me in so many ways. As she turns three, I think about the things that make her who she is, the things I want to celebrate and cultivate and remember - and smile over....
Eva is fundamentally an emotional, creative, and exuberant personality. She's quick to learn and pretend, is creative and musical, loves the trampolene and playing tag, is pretty extroverted and talkative with others, and has kept her on-going love affair with puppies and dogs of all forms as she gets older. She loves the Sound of Music, reading, kiwi, her sandbox, swimming/baths, chocolate, being goofy and silly, playing with her dollhouse, being with friends, dancing, her trains, dress-up, cuddling with her mom, coloring, and cooking with her dad.   

Eva has grown up a lot this past year; she often makes these colossal jumps forward and I feel like we catch up afterward. Oh, now you wear size 4T and 5T and you have three new inches of hair somehow!  Oh, now you want to do that all on your own, are strong enough for that, and won't eat that. Thanks for letting me know. :) She's made amazing leaps in her capacity for learning, talking, listening, remembering, being creative, and in relationships with others. She explained "echo-location" and how bats squeak to find things while on a car ride the other day, easily remembers the words to songs she hears more then a couple times, and can whack her t-ball across the yard without hesitation. She surprised me by starting to write the first two letters of her name lately, and has long been able to spell her name and also M-O-M. Her logic seems to grow daily, as she strings together how food goes in your tummy and then turns into poop, how seeds need water and sun and then they grow into plants, how if she listens well she gets a sticker and then she gets a new toy (we think she gets this one - we'll see!). She tenderly cares for and dresses her baby dolls, makes up animal sounds and names routinely, and loves pretending of all kinds - with her doll house people, baby dolls, animals, puppets, book characters, little people, etc. She's also still crafty, loving paint/draw/color/cut and glue/sticker time, and pretend reads to herself often.  

Opening birthday presents last week
Eva is also still very expressive, and I watch with interest as her emotions continue to develop. She still flaps her arms when excited (which is often), and exuberantly welcomes people when she sees them with big hugs and exclamations of, "I am so glad that you're here!"  She loves time with our friends who come over, family out of town who visit, friends her age at church, and folks she sees all the time - like the grocery store guy who gives her chocolate, or the teacher at gymnastics. She also feels and names new feelings lately, like being proud, guilty, or feeling shy. It is cool to watch Peter help her understand her feelings when they overwhelm her (and sometimes me!), as the two of them talk through what she feels or what he intuitively understands she feels when she isn't able to express it herself. He is such a great dad in many, many ways, but it's a God-given gift that he can help her process and feel her wide range of emotions in certain settings, since he is wired more that way himself. I, on the other hand, tend to help her talk about her feelings and her thoughts, and provide the verbal affirmation that she is safe and connected and loved, based on my wiring. Eva sometimes seems to ask each of us for this emotional affirmation, that she is solid, she is secure, safe and connected. It could be reaching out to hold my hand in the car, or snuggling up at night, or taking my cheeks in her hands; maybe its jumping on her dad to tickle with him or chasing him while brushing her teeth - she's just a fabulously affectionate little person. 
Ta-da! New ballerina leotard!

Eva is also a bit of a performer already and loves to make up songs, dance in her ballerina leotard, dress up, try on clothes/hats/shoes in front of her mirror, and see pictures/videos of herself. She laughs at herself and us easily, and has a giggle that lights up the room!  Her common phrases include, "Oh dear," "That's cool," "Maybe I will....," and "Here's the deal...." She has started throwing in surprising vocab words too, like "actually," "definitely," and "recently" - although she says, "last year" for any unit of time previous to the present. She still easily picks some basic spanish from tv shows and a few books, and loves hearing her french books read to her too.   

We've also continued to see what Eva doesn't do so well. She's not great at goodbyes, or with not knowing that something is happening ahead of time - especially a big transition. She is also perfecting the art of making discipline of all varieties into a power-struggle. She doesn't do veggies right now, doesn't listen super well if she's distracted or playing on her own, and gets pretty cranky if she watches too much tv (obviously more of a parent lesson here :) !) She can be bossy and is also what is sometimes called a strong-willed kid, or a strong personality in many ways - she quickly shares her opinions, feelings, wants, and needs (sometimes this is a good ting, sometimes it's a challenge.) I wonder if she'll struggle with her wide ranging emotions as she gets older, and I think about how much her emotional sensitivity to tone and discipline shape how we as parents can love and guide her. I also marvel at how in touch she is with what she is feeling, how full of excitement she is, how she can mischievously growl at and then compassionately hug her toys a second later. 

Even though I think the power-struggle days have just begun, I can't wait to see all that this next year brings with it for our little Eva Margaret. She's so full of potential and life, and I keep being amazed by her each day! Happy birthday to Eva M - aka, baby puppy, little bird - you're truly a gift.                         


Thursday, March 25, 2010

What I Love About Eva at Two Years Old....

Our little girl just celebrated her second birthday! Two years ago we brought this tiny little bundle home - and now she is tearing up and down the hallway and making up stories for us and her dolls. Time does keep flying by…



I wanted to document what I love about Eva at this age, and the cute and funny things that make her Eva Margaret. At two years old, I would describe Miss Eva as spunky, giggly, sweet, cuddly, outgoing, sensitive, extroverted, smart, funny, fearless, and active. She loves being on the move, being around other kids and adults, and trying out new stuff. She has many little personality traits that keep developing – she laughs at herself and us easily, sometimes even being silly or playing tricks on us; she almost always loves reading to herself or being read to; she picks up words and emotions from people around her pretty quickly; she’s fairly adaptable and flexible, but also thrives on some structure and having things explained to her ahead of time (which Peter thinks might be her mom’s influence!) She’s definitely had her bad weeks/phases (where nursery at church was hard, babysitters couldn’t put her to bed, or she got really whiney and crabby for no real reason) – as all toddlers do. But in general, she’s a pretty easy going, vocal, sweet and smart little girl who I daily marvel at. Also, I think she is about the most adorable kid I’ve ever seen but – that is just me.

So – Happy Birthday Eva M! Your mommy and daddy love you so much and so do a lot of other people. I can’t wait to keep seeing the little girl that you grow into and keep learning how to be your mommy. Cheers!

I love…
- watching her cook “wuffahs” (waffles) in the morning with her daddy
- when she bonks my glass with her sippy cup and says, “chaizz” (cheers)
- reading the Ladybug Book and the Counting Kisses book at night while cuddling
- having her ask me to sing Baby Mine and hold her at night while cuddling
- how she scrunches up her nose to make her ‘cute face’
- how anytime she hears music she likes she dances, swinging her bum and shoulders back and forth, and often asks me to dance too
- seeing her excitement over so many things; walking up and down the stairs, playing peek a boo, Pooh, Elmo, going to the park, getting in the car, when her favorite songs begin, taking a bath, swimming, going outside, taking a walk, having her favorite sitters come over, having friends come over, when she can hear one of us coming up the stairs to come home, etc. When she’s excited she still wildly flaps her arms up and down and opens her mouth like a little birdie, like she has since she was tiny!
- watching her tuck in, feed, and take care of her baby dolls
- when she spontaneously breaks into singing the alphabet at the top of her lungs
- when she counts to thirteen (“firteen”) but almost always forgets “4”
- when she says, “be right back,” or “wait just a mitten” (minute), ‘cause she hears us say that; or “bit of elmo” to watch a video on the computer, “I hung-ee” when she’s hungry, or “crib, up ‘n down sky” to get in our bed and be lifted up high and dropped down by her dad
- how she always picks up on when people/characters in a book or on tv feel sad, even often crying or making sad sounds along with them (“aww, baby sad”)
- how she carefully sets up and runs her train on the tracks and over the bridge, over and over and over..
- how great she is at puzzles, especially the shapes and animals (with the missing fish) ones
- how often she says “okay – okay – okay,” “again, again,” and “yesss.”
- how she likes to go into a room, closet or bathroom by herself (even in the dark), close the door, and giggle until we open the door to “surprise” her; then she says “Stay! Go!” indiscriminately (she confuses those words.)
- that she likes to watch and ‘play’ Zuma  - she calls it the ‘froggie game, ball game’
- how she will talk to herself while laying in her crib, often going over the day she just finished at night or remembering stuff in the morning, like talking about a random event that stuck in her mind from earlier in the week (i.e., “Izey sick, mommy daddy home soon, swing park, abcs….”)
- that she usually obeys/responds when we explain something and reinforce it once or twice (so far!)
- that she likes to help “keen” (clean) with her broom, and by taking baby wipes around the house and cleaning her chalkboard and the mirrors, etc.
- how she plays with her hippos/duckies/turtles/dollie in the bathtub, often making up conversations between them all as they ‘climb’ around the tub
- snuggling in the morning with her and Peter in our bed; including having her tell us to ‘seep, seep’ and ‘awake, wake up’ while we pretend to be asleep or awake, and including Peter’s many flip and twirl and flying games in our bed
- hearing her uproarious giggle – when she gets tickled (especially under the chin), chased, when we play catch or kick the ball up and down the hall, and when she looks over the shoulder of one of us on the stairway and sees the other person behind her on the stairs
- that she loves to go fast on the road (while I am driving) and spots buses, trucks, cars, and stop signs from the backseat with great enthusiasm
- that she knows when we are getting close to certain routine destinations just based on the roads, like the ‘him, him’ (gym) where she plays ‘base-bull’ (basketball) in the playroom, or ‘Izey’s house’ (where she hangs out on Fridays.) We can be several blocks away from where we’re headed and she will recognize where we are heading – which amazes me!
- how she closes her fists and puts them under her chin when we pray, and loudly says “Ah-mein” when we are done
- how she sings along with songs like Winnie the Pooh, Twinkle Twinkle Little Star, Frosty, ABC’s, Jesus Loves Me, Sesame Street, Elmo’s World, Rock A Bye Baby, Baby Mine, Sing a Song, and my favorite, Halo (from Glee.)
- that she wants both her crib rainforest music player AND her CD player on a the same time while going to sleep
- seeing her dress up (in her hats, in her sunglasses, in our shoes, in empty boxes, with her necklaces, with her purses, with my bracelets, in my hats, etc.)
- how after we tuck her into bed, she pulls the covers up to her chin, snuggles with lambie, and waves to us while saying “bye, bye.”
- that when I come home after being gone she runs up to me, gives me a huge hug, and yells “Mommy! Mommy! You home! I yuv you, I yuv you, I yuv you too.”  That is the best.

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

2 Year Old Photo Shoot!




This weekend we had a blast celebrating Eva's 2nd birthday (she is technically 2 March 25.) While I was enjoying family, friends, and getting food/my toddler together, I managed to take zero pictures of the actual party. :( But I do have some fab pics from the photo shoot that my brother did of Eva to mark her second year. A few of those are posted here... and I think I will get some shared birthday pictures later on to share as well.

Yeah for great family and friends who helped us celebrate our daughter - both those who were in town and those who sent great gifts and love from far away. What a lucky little girl!






(more fun photos all edited up are also on our photo site.. fyi, grandmas)

Friday, January 1, 2010

More Highlight Photo Collages from 2009

Below are a few more collages summarizing the past year for me. These are mainly from events that were too significant - and we had too many cute photos - for me to cut down and only splice into the seasonal summary collages. Most of these event collages revolve around a new little person in our family (I know, surprising, right?) So - in addition to the previously posted seasonal summaries, the following collages show Eva's first Christmas ('08), first birthday party, one-year-old photo shoot, and her baptism. I love to look over these again and remember each of these big events from our past year... we some amazing memories.  







Saturday, July 25, 2009

Eva the Princess Chronicles

For Eva's birthday, Liz and I wanted to find a way to commemorate her first year with us. So we came up with the idea of a story that captured many (unfortunately not all of them) of the important experiences that happened during that first year. I, of course, have been meaning to get this up on the blog ever since we started it, but better late than never, right?



Herein lies the Chronicles of Princess Eva.

Our tale begins when the citizens of the Kingdom hear some wonderful and joyous news. A princess was coming to the kingdom. There had never been a princess in the kingdom before and no one knew what to expect. What does a princess look like? Does she have horns? What can a princess do? Can she fly? Everyone was very excited to meet this new princess.

Soon the heralds announced that a date had been set for Princess Eva’s arrival to the kingdom. The entire land got ready for March 25, 2008 – a very special day. Nobility from all over world began to arrive to meet this new princess. Lord David and Lady Linda crossed the Arctic snow. Grand Duke Thomas and Duchess Karen sailed the Great Lake. Count Josh and Countess Kara traveled across the Golden Fields and Green Pastures. Baron Timothy and Baroness Meghan, Marquess Zach and Marchioness Kate (escorting the Prince Isaac and Prince Anders), and Duke Joshua all traveled from their nearby kingdoms. Rulers from around the world sent their gifts and accolades. Countess Alicia and Count David’s emissary traveled for weeks across mountains, deserts, and seas to send their salutations to the new princess. Baroness Jill, Marquess Jedidiah, and Marchioness Linnea all sent their missives on the backs of winged unicorns. One by one all of nobility met the new princess and everyone fell in love with her the moment she arrived.

The days and weeks after the arrival of Princess Eva were filled with wonders too many to tell.

Not long after Eva’s arrival, Duke Christopher and Duchess Sarah requested the presence of the princess and her escorts at a grand party in the magical woods far north of the Kingdom. Eva had taken many trips, but never one as far as this one. So the Queen walked out to the highest cliff and sang a beautiful song. Soon a giant blue dragon swooped down from the clouds with two strong dragon riders perched on its back. The dragon was going to fly them all the way to the magical woods! So the King, Queen, and Princess jumped on the back of the dragon while the Baron and Baroness helped the Lord and Lady up onto dragon’s tail. Everyone held on tight as the dragon riders tightened the reins and the dragon soared into the air. As they climbed higher and higher, Lady Linda became scared of how high they had traveled. Eva though gave her a hug and made the Lady forget how high they were. The dragon riders, impressed by the kindness that the princess had shown, gave her a pair of diamond dragon wings. They told her that whenever she needed to travel to a distant land, she just needed to pin the wings to her clothes and they would come as fast as she could blink. Eva had never been to a party as amazing as the one held for the Duke and Duchess. The Duchess wore a dress that was so beautiful that everyone who saw her cried for joy.

As the days grew shorter and the nights longer, Princess Eva was invited to observe the commemoration of the birth of God’s Son at the court of Lord David and Lady Linda. The queen explained that the birth of God’s Son was the most special event of the whole year. Princess Eva asked if she could have a special dress for the occasion. So the queen assembled all of the best tailors in the land and together they created a beautiful red dress for the princess to wear for the special ceremony. On the eve of the birthday of God’s Son, the Lord and Lady hosted a huge feast and then Princess Eva, resplendent in her red dress, was escorted by the King and Queen to the commemoration ceremony. Eva sat in awe at the beautiful music and magical rites of the ceremony. During their stay at the Lord and Lady’s court, Princess Eva also had the opportunity to meet the Grand Lady Marilyn at her estate.

Soon after the commemoration ceremony, Princess Eva traveled to the Grand Duke and Duchesses’ Kingdom to attend the Grand Ball in honor of Count David and Countess Alicia. The Count and Countess were getting married and Princess Eva watched as hundreds of the finest dressed gentlemen and ladies eagerly lined up to enter the Grand Ball in honor of their wedding. While Eva was amazed by all of the ladies’ dresses, only two were grand enough for her to remember forever. Countess Alicia, of course, was dressed in a beautiful wedding gown made from strands of moonlight that lighted the entire room. One of Countess Alicia’s attendants, the Baroness Jill, looked spectacular in her flowing black dress. The beauty of the Countess and her sister the Baroness were the talk of the ball. The entire evening of the ball was enchanted. There was a sumptuous feast and many hours of dancing with all of the gentlemen and ladies. Princess Eva never wanted the night to end, but the duties of a princess are never done and soon Eva had to return to her kingdom.

For the next few months, Princess Eva kept busy learning her many duties in the kingdom. She spent many days and weeks working studiously at the King and Queen's side. As a reward, the Queen and King told Eva about an amazing place called Paradise. The stories that Eva heard filled her with excitement and she wanted very much to see this Paradise, but it was very far away and the Queen had lost her singing voice so they had no way to call the dragons to take them to Paradise. The King and Queen and Eva were all sad. Then Eva remembered her diamond dragon wings. She ran to her room and found magical wings and she pinned them to her dress. At first nothing happened, but soon the sound of rushing air filled the castle. Dragons were coming! Eva asked the big dragons if they could take her and the King and Queen to the land of Paradise. The dragons agreed and soon Eva was flying high above the clouds. When they arrived, Eva visited the crystal shores and was even able to dip her toes in the beautiful blue waters. The King and Queen took her to see many of the magical creatures that lived in Paradise. She met huge caimans which smiled big toothy grins at Eva. She met griffins and even heard about a strange creature called a werecat – a dangerous but beautiful creature that existed somewhere in the realm. While the Queen stayed in the carriage, Princess Eva and King Peter searched everywhere but never found any sign of this creature. Soon enough it was time to return to leave Paradise and return to their kingdom. Eva once again called the dragons and they returned the King, Queen, and the Princess to their castle.

Eva continued her lessons and became adept at many of her duties as Princess. Sooner than anyone thought possible, Eva celebrated her first year in the Kingdom. The King and Queen threw a huge festival in her honor. Royalty came from all over the world to celebrate the Princess. Count Josh, Countess Kara, Marquess Jedidiah, Lord David and Lady Linda all traveled from the far north across fields and forests. Grand Duke Thomas and Duchess Karen once again sailed the Great Lake. Duchess Sarah, Marchioness Linnea, and Countess Alicia called their dragons to come from the East and the West. Baron Timothy and Baroness Meghan, Marquess Zach and Marchioness Kate (escorting the Prince Isaac and Prince Anders), and Duke Joshua all traveled from their nearby kingdoms. Everyone descended on the King and Queen’s castle for the big party bearing precious jewels, rare stones, meticulously crafted cloth all for the Princess. The Princess was so excited and reveled in the presence of so many noble men and women.

The King and Queen though had an even bigger gift for the Princess. The day after the festival, all of the Dukes and Duchesses, Lords and Ladies, Counts and Countesses, Marquesses and Marchionesses, Barons and Baronesses, and the King, Queen, and Princess all traveled across the Great City to Grand Cathedral. In the presence of all of the royalty and parishioners of the Grand Cathedral, the King and Queen brought the Princess before the Great God. Standing before the throne of the Great God, King Peter and Queen Elizabeth, with the support of the Marquesses Zach and Jedidiah and Marchionesses Kate and Linnea, humbled themselves and asked the Great God to bless Princess Eva. The Princess, awed by the presence of the Great God, shakily curtsied and Great God looked into Princess Eva eyes and smiled…

Here ends the first chapter of the Chronicles of Princess Eva…